DaasYochid -
I don't think they ever said all Lo Silbashes are created equal.
Yet that is the idea I get from reading through the Tur, Beis Yosef, Rema, and R' Akiva Eger on the siman.
I also don't think we should be telling major poskim what kind of mehalech they should have in psak. It's one thing to talk in learning, but that's above our pay grade.
I don't agree.